I need serious advice.?

Hm, that sucks. You know that he will possibly cheat again and again, right? That's something you have to choose to live with if you decide to maintain this relationship. He lacks respect for you and that's a big no-no in a successful relationship. I hear that you love him and it's hard. You feel guilty too, but I don't know why since he's the one who messed up and now he's acting like a child... getting drunk and into trouble. My serious advice to you would be to break it off permanently and see if you can find someone else. There are so many men out there who are loyal and kind... But it's your choice and if you want to stay with him you might have to deal with this for the rest of your life with this guy. Good luck!